Creep
My boyfriend and I were hanging out at the beach lateone night. After a while my boyfriend needed to go to the bathroom. I asked him if anyone was in the bathroom and he replied with "No." So I stood halfwayin the men's bathroom talking with him. As myboyfriend was finishing up with washing his hands aolder man who had to be in his 40's walked passed meto enter the bathroom. I said "Excuse me" and backed out of the men's room. My boyfriend was just walking out by then. The older man then snickered "I'm sure it's nothing you haven't seen before." I couldn'tbelieve it and I didn't know what to say. I'm stillmad that I didn't say anything to him. I was seventeen when it happened.
S. Pismo Beach, CA
posted by HollaBackCali @ 6:07 PM
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But.. you were in the male bathroom. The comment was unwaranted but you were still in the Bathroom.
Stay out of the mens bathroom then.
Wait a second...you were in HIS space, not the reverse.
I do not remember his name off hand but a son of the owners of a majority of property along Pismo pier has been prosecuted (guilty)for enticing minors with drugs for sex parties - both sexes. The Pismo pier is a nasty breeding ground for people out to 'partay' or worse.
This is not to negate all the nice tourists that also abound there - in the daytime. Or to negate S' feeling of disgust but to highlight that Pismo has had a reputation as far back as WW2; & some of the weirdos are that old....
S; practice yelling "I'm a Minor & my dad's a cop" or something like that. Most men are not thinking about boundaries & have been trained in the men's school of cool.... rather Not cool (*~*)
While normally this comment might be considered stupid, if you are in the men's bathroom, talking to your boyfriend while he "does his business" then it probably can be safely assumed that you are the type of girl who is comfortable around a penis.
Because I wasn't there, I don't know how the man said it. But at the same time it sounds more like a joke to me. I am not in any way a pervert, nor have a ever even hit on a girl (I am in a 4+ year relationship with my high school sweetheart). But I have read some of the other posts and those sound like serous issues. This just sounds like you need to get a sense of humor.
It doesn't matter she was in the men's bathroom. She only went in when she was sure no one else but her boyfriend was in there.
No woman ever "deserves" to be treated like she was. That man was out of line and his transgression isn't softened by her "being in his space."
Just because she's comfortable with seeing her BOYFRIEND'S penis doesn't mean she is comfortable, wants to, or is otherwise okay with seeing other men's penises.
She felt uncomfortable with his comment, and that's what's important. Stop with the victim blaming.
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