Even with my boyfriend...
I was walking down the street in San Diego, CA, with my boyfriend, and several middle-aged men walked out of a restaurant that we were walking in front of. They were passing us up as one of them looked back, nudged his friend and said "Damn, that guy is lucky. Look what he gets to f*** everynight."
I have never been more humiliated. And I wonder just how many women a man like that picks up with those lines?
Simone, San Diego, CA
posted by HollaBackCali @ 8:17 PM
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8 Comments:
diggiing yer blog.
yeah i was at the bank with my girlfriend and this new accounts guy comes over and starts flirting with her. i'm standing right there. sheesh!
reminds me of the seinfeld episode where jerry keeps hanging out with gay guys and men keep hitting on the men he's with. jerry get pissed that people are assuming he couldn't possibly be with the guy he's hanging out with.
if that made any sense.
i was in a bank with my girlfriend and this "new accounts"guy comes over and starts flirting with her. i'm right there! sheesh!
Yeah, that's just disgusting. I wonder how much of that kind of crap is posturing for the benefit of his friends. Like "I'm such a manly man, I'm gonna make this nasty comment about that woman." Ugh.
I'm sorry you felt humiliated in front of your boyfriend like that. Try to remember how humilitaing it must be to BE that guy every day, though. ;)
Yeah, that is just gross. I wonder if he would have made that comment (or one like it) if he had been alone.
I'm so sorry you felt humiliated like that while out with your boyfriend. I guess, just try to remember how humiliating it must be to BE that guy every day. ;)
that comment wasn't ment for u to hear, and if anything its a statement of ur personal power over mens minds i dont understand women like you not every thing is flowers and sunshine dont expect it 2 be
I can't believe the nerve some men have. A good friend of mine was at the beach with her husband. She was on her stomack facing the street while her husband was on his back. Some guy pulled his car over. Moved to the passenger side and opened the door. He was completely naked. He turned so he was facing her and started masturbating. She said she just froze. He was bigger than her husband so she didn't want to tell
him. The guy stayed until he finished, blew her a kiss and drove away. Her husband never new this happened.
To the anonymous dickhead 3rd post down. We EXPECT freedom you moron, you act as if we are asking for something irrational "what..being able to go about your daily buisness without us making you afriad? THAT'S CRAZY!" , you don't expect men to grab your ass or penis or say how he wants to have sex with you when YOU go about your daily basis now do you? You don't think about changing your routes to work or to the store constantly or crossing the street because you don't trust that man walking towards you, you don't have to worry about what you wear (like it matters) You don't have to worry about getting home before it gets "too dark" and I don't mean the concern for mugging, you don't have to feel incredibly vunerable for simply being on your own (even in a busy place). We EXPECT to be able to walk down the f***ing street without being sexually harassed by disgusting women-hating men (how can you say these things unless you resent women?), and get a f***king clue, you disgusting repulsive perverts only say these degrading things to remind us everyday "WE HAVE POWER OVER YOU, WE CAN MAKE YOU SCARED, WE CAN SAY WHAT WE WANT TO YOU BECAUSE WE DON'T SEE YOU AS A PERSON" Every time a random stranger asks a girl to "smile for him" or says things like "nice tits" "nice arse" we HATE you , we HATE you so much it makes our blood boil, We HATE you , I cannot stress this enough. To those deluded dumbasses who honestly believe you are paying a woman a compliment by blocking her way , approaching her while she doesn't want to be approached making her feel uncomfortable and afraid by declaring how much you like staring at her body, STOP IT. By continuing this behaviour women you claim to "love" so much are going to resent you and hate you and veiw you as a potential rapists just by glancing at you , you know why? because women EXPECT horrid responses for doing the normal things as you do, for simply going outside her house, because you scum bags are just encouraging our distrust of men. So to sum up this rant we EXPECT, RESPECT. You are not helping your gender at all by doing sh*t like this, you are making it worse for yourslves and worse for US.
Duplex84...have you been reading the blog?
Things like this happen to women all the time
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